I too hate love story

I love u,simran !!!

--yours Raj

Hey friends, I want to clear some of your misunderstanding about the most lovable word “love”.

Love,raj,simran are as unreal and imaginary as the punch and power of any south indian hero . We think it to be real but its not like that. Now most of you must be angry upon me, mostly the engaged guys, who are stuck with someone. But I want to clear your conflict.

The feel, that we call as “love” should better be known as “crush”. The stages are:

Attraction -->Crush-->Affair

Hereby I want to make you realize that what I am speaking is correct. so apply your brain and memory to find the answer of “where the love started from & who taught you ,what love is indeed ?”

Romeo-juliet…..laila –majnu…

Are you thinking so? Then this time you are wrong. Actually love started from TV ,and movies taught you what love is all about …

You might be thinking that “actually love is a real concept.”Then I will suggest you to think once –

Earlier times, love stories were starting after 20 years of age.

“ek ladki ko dekha to aisa laga jaise….”

Then love stories entered into colleges and higher educations.

“yeh mere college ki ladkiyon ….

yun mahobbat mein mujhko naa dekha karo.”

Now even school kids are also falling in love. In most of the love stories you will find one resemblance that both of them are classmates .The reason of flow of love to down agers movies only.

Some persons may claim, If love is not real, then why the pulse rate of heart raises, when you saw the person you love the most ??

Again the answer is the effect of movie. Let me explain you in details. You might have heard the name of the movie “DOSTANA” .it gave a new side to love, its just like the tossing coin of the movie “SHOLEY” both sides head only . Now more stories and sequels of DOSTANA are waiting to be released on that theme. So it’s not a matter of surprise that after 5 years, the heart beat of a boy will raise, when he will saw another handsome boy. It’s all about what we receive?

While I was a kid, I loved to watch “shaktimaan”, but now I don’t like it. Same is the case of love. It last for few years. There after you will not find any charm in him/her. You might have seen guys changing their lovers regularly. Had love been a true concept, this condition might not have happened. Let me give you an illustration – in general we consider rose to be the symbol of love . Compare love with rose. We love rose for its beauty. But after 2/3 days it lost its beauty, freshness. Then we switch over to a new one. That’s what true. when we think we love a person , we are wrong . Thereare some quality that makes you love him/her. After few years you will feel bored .when you will find another guy having superior quality you will lean towards him/her.

The emotions on our face are totally controlled by certain hormones. So we feel happy due to secretion of a certain type of hormone. jise hum filmi andaaz mein kehte hai “tum nahi samjhoge Rahul,kuch kuch hota hai . ”

You know what? We receive things that we love to receive. Let me help you understand this. It’s a story I read in the book “you can win” by shiv khera .

A guy was demonstrating the effect of alcohol on humans to a group of people. He took two glasses one having distilled water and other one having alcohol. He put one earthworms in each glass. The earthworm I distilled water came out swimming. The other one died in the alcohol.

But the audience received that if they will drink alcohol then all the worms inside their body will be finished.

That’s how we are? When are attracted towards a girl, you will get symptoms that you want to get. Just like. On the road, after you cross her, she turned around to see you. You will be assured that she loves you.

“are yaar sadak ka kutta bhi piche ghum ke dekhta hai” . It does not mean the dog too loves you. It’s not like “palat palat” in DDLJ. This is also possible that she turned around to watch the hot wallpaper of any movie behind you.

“Log kehte hai – pyar andha hota hai …

I am saying –andhe logon ko hi pyar hota hai ”

Those persons who can’t recognize reality and lost them in the world of dreams, where they are with their loving person & some sweet music .

From “music” I reminded one thing. Have you ever seen a love story in a movie without music or a beautiful song? Obviously the answer will be “no”. So remove the background music & song from a movie, I am sure you will not like that.

So I am saying, music is the part of a love story, that makes you love it.

Let’s discuss some other words (concepts) of love, derived by great Bollywood movies (not indeed) –propose, love at first sight, confused state, bhag ke saadi .

So let’s move to the first one, “propose” .if you will analyse the love stories of your colony ,college ,then you will find the love stories must be matching with any of the Bollywood / tollywood movies ,including the internet chat, late night gossip on mobile ,the way of propose & surprisingly the way of response from the other side . pehle na phir haan .

Now the second one, “love at first sight”. This is also one of the greatest contributions of Bollywood. What a person can hardly find in an opposite sex at the first sight?? Face, figure&status. This is sufficient for a person to fall in love, as it happens in movies.

Guys are also getting confused that whom do they love?

“janna!!! I was confused, but really I love you so much.” how funny.

Some of the lines you might have heard ,

“mein tum hare liye jaan bhi de sakta hum …”

Are yaar jaan dur ki baat hai,pehle B.A to pass kar le .

If you will go to a remote tribal area ,you will never find any of the attributes like –bhag ke saadi ,love at first sight ,confused state .why is it so ? are not they human? Thing is that they don’t watch movies. But we don’t consider them saying they are not advanced like us .

Actually we are totally driven by movies .earlier it was

“chod de aanchal jamana kya kahega”

“usne mujhe chua tak nhi”

Now “mein tum hare bachhe ki maa ban ne wali hun ”

That’s what the reality .youll find couples in parks in different conditions and moods . earlier the word “sexy” was a offense for girls . now it’s a dignity of their glamour . no one feels ackward to sing “Sheila ki jawani” as it is accepted by Bollywood stars and our so called role model “saas bahu” actors on TV serials .

So if we don’t have an emotional intelligence to drive ourself, then what is the difference between human and robot , I don’t mean rajnikant .

Dil to bachha hai ji .isse kabu mein rakhna jaruri he . warna 1 Rs. Ke chocolate mein koi isse kabu kar lega . this is all about my knowledge on love (sorry crush) .

With love (truely)

Gupteswar Mahapatro